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Isini kunye neSixeko abalandeli abanakuze basilibale isiqendu esithi 'Umdaniso wenkukhu,' apho undwendwe lukaMiranda luza kuvuthuza kwaye noCarrie bagqibela ngokunika i-toast yomtshato e-The Plaza Hotel. (Owu, kwaye xa uMiranda wabethwa entloko ngesiqhamo somtshato? Classic.) Kodwa bekukho okungakumbi kwintetho kaCarrie kunokuba idibana nelihlo, kuba omnye wababhali abaphumelele amabhaso e-Emmy, uCindy Chupack, wabhala umbongo womtshato esekwe kwelinye lamava akhe obomi. Uye wanika Elle.com i-backstory-kunye ne-tip enkulu ukuba unamathela ekubhaleni i-toast yakho yomtshato.

UChupack ubhala athi:

'' Umdaniso wenkukhu, '' sisiqendu sokuqala endasibhalela Isini kunye neSixeko , ibonakalise into endikhe ndayigqiba. Umhlobo oyindoda kunye nentombazana awayethandana nayo bahlala kum ngeempelaveki enye endlwini endandizithengele yona, kwaye bagqibela ngokuzibandakanya apho. (Ngaloo ndlela umgca, uthe kum emtshatweni wabo, emva koko nguMiranda: 'Wonke umntu uthi nje ukuba ufumane indawo yakho, umntu uya kuphakamisa-ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba kum!') Umhlobo wam wandibuza ukubhala umbongo oza kuwufunda emtshatweni wabo. Ndineemvakalelo ezingqubanayo malunga nendlela yokubhiyozela uthando lwabo ngelixa ndizililela ngokuzingca ngemeko yolwalamano lwam (okanye ukungabikho).

Uyaqhubeka:

'Into eyandimangalisayo ngokuthandana komhlobo wam, kunye naleyo yayikwisiqendu, yayisisantya. Ndifuna ukufaka into kumbongo malunga nombane-kwi-bhotile yomlingo yothando eyenzeka ngokukhawuleza nangokungazami. Kuyamangalisa kum ukuva la mabali. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane bunokubakho ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye busebenza ngokufanelekileyo xa uthando luyiminyaka ekwenzeni. Kodwa xa luthando lokwenyani ekuboneni kuqala-ndicinga ukuba luyathandana kwaye luhle kwaye kufanelekile ukuba luqatshelwe.

Nanku umbongo uphelele:

Umolo wakhe ibisisiphelo

yokuphela kwayo

Ukuhleka kwakhe kwaba kokokuqala kwabo

yehla ezantsi

Isandla sakhe sasiza kuba

yakhe ukubamba ngonaphakade

Wakhe ngonaphakade wayefana

elula njengoncumo lwakhe

Uthe uyintoni

ebengekho

Uye wathi kwangoko ebeyazi

Wayengumbuzo

ukuphendulwa

Impendulo yakhe yathi 'ndiyayenza.'

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